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最近很愛一句話: 當愛變成了生命的全部,愛就會變成一條死路.


有些女人把愛情放在第一位,因此紅牌出局后立馬找替補上場,整日想方設法怎麼圈住男人的心和金錢.

有些女人則是享受人生中只有十分之一的單身時光,努力工作,去博物館,去學花藝,去周遊世界.

那麼,誰才會找到MR.RIGHT呢?想必大家已經心裡有答案了.

之所以說單身時光只有十分之一,那是因為18歲讀大學前都是住家裡吃家裡,22歲讀大學要麼就是在家裡住,要麼就是住學校宿舍,這樣算下來人生的1/4就過去了(命值設為88歲).假設你不當大齡剩女或高齡產婦的話你就得30歲結婚,那你30歲結婚之後你得為老公洗完做飯做家務吧,如果有了孩子你還得照顧孩子吧.那麼你30歲結婚以後的生活已經不屬於你了.所以這樣算一算你只有8年的單身時光可以享受.也就是十分之一.

我想,一名女性要是以愛為生、無愛則死的話是一件很可悲的事.

當然了,我也不是鼓勵大家成為剩鬥士,

與其一直癡癡等待那個對的人走進自己的人生來,


倒不如想想辦法讓自己成為那個對的人走進別人的人生去.



A sentence that I highly recommand: When love becomes everything in life, it will become a dead end.


Some women put love in the first place. They will find someone else immediately when they dumped him or be dumped by him. They do anything to figure out how to get men and money.

Some women enjoy only 1/10 of time of their lives to be single, work hard, to visit the museums,to learn flower arrangements, to travel the world.

Then who's gonna find the MR.RIGHT? Well,I'm sure you've got your answer now.

The reason that there is only 1/10 of time to be single is you live with your parents till 18 years old wihout any worring and you live in dormitory or home when you are a college student. So 1/4 of your live is gone(let's assume you will live till 88 years old). And you will get married at 30 years old if you don't wanna be 3S lady or elderly parturient woman. After that you need to take care of your husband's daily life.It's busier if you have a child or children and you will never have your own time.

So,you only can enjoy 8 years to be single which is 1/10 of your life.

In my own opinion, it's so tragic for a woman if she lives for love.

Anyway, I'm not encouraging you to become an extra grade leftover lady.


It's more wiser to find a better way to become the better you than just sit and wait for the right person to come into your life.



요즘에 이런 말을 좋아한다: 사랑이 인생의 전부가 될 때에는 사랑의 막다른 길이 될 것이다. 


어떤 여자는 사랑을 1순위로 생각하여 남친한테 차였을 때나 남친과 헤어졌을 때 다른 남자를 만나서 어떻게 이 남자를 잘 잡아 두고 돈을 얻느냐에 신경을 많이 쓴다.

어떤 여자는  인생의 10분의 1의 싱글 타임을 잘 즐기면서 돈을 벌거나, 박물관에 가거나,  꽃꽃이 강습을 받거나,여행을 간다.

그럼 누가 그 사람을 만날 수 있을까? 답이 뻔하다.

인생의 10분의 1의 싱글 타임이라는 이유는 대학에 가기 전엔 18살까지는 가족과 함께 집에서 살고, 18살부터 22살까지는 대학의 기숙사에서 지내거나 집에서 살면서 인생의 4분의 1을 보낸다.(88살까지 산다면) 만약에 노처녀나 고령 임산부가 되기 싫으면 30살에 결혼해야 한다.결혼 생활을 시작하면 남편에게 밥도 해줘야 하고 설거지도 해야 하고 집안일도 해야 한다. 애기가 생겼으면 애기도 챙겨야 해서 30살에 결혼한 후의 인생은 더이상 자기 것이 아니다.그래서  8년만 싱글 타임을 즐길 수 있다.

나는 사랑을 위해서 태어나거나 사랑이 없으면 죽겠다는 여자는 너무 비참하다고 생각한다.

그러나 나는 모두 노처녀가 되는 것을 권장하는 것이 아니다.


다만  늘 누군가를 기다리는 것보다 차라리 자기가 먼저 더 좋은 사람이 되도록 노력하는 것이 더 나은 게 아닐까?


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